Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Recognize the Experience

Child: My teacher says she’s calling off the class play. She’s mean.
Parent: That must be a big disappointment for you. You were looking forward to it. 
Child: Yeah. Just because some kids fool around at rehearsal. It’s their fault. Parent: (listens silently)

 Child:
She’s mad because nobody knows their parts, too.
Parent: I see.

Child: She said if we “shaped up”, she might give us one more chance ... I better go over my lines again. Would you cue me tonight?
     
Lesson: What people of all ages can use in a moment of distress is not agreement or disagreement; they need someone to recognize what it is they’re experiencing.

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