Top 10 mistakes to be avoided in 20s

151th Prerna by HG Gaur Gopal Pr

*Unleash your potential- top 10 mistakes to be avoided in 20s*

If there were no people to wear clothes then what's the use of selling clothes, similarly without shrotas no meaning to vaktas. 

Good looking people, smart are considered to be successful today. There r so many ideas about successful, may b so many of  these ideologist be right or wrong. We may commit mistake by following wrong ideology. We have done so many mistakes especially in the zeal of youth.  Some mistakes can be corrected. *Bhul karna prakriti hai man Lena sanskriti hai, sudhar Lena pragati hai.* Progressive life is to accept and not repeating mistake.  

1) *We learn from mahabharat - Ethics from epics- how to live*

*We learn from ramayan - how to lead*

*We learn from SB - How to leave* 

2) *We learn from Wise saints who share their experience* 

3) *We learn from our own mistakes* 

*First mistake Is having wrong concept of happiness* 

We think Money is source of happiness. Money leads to desires. We have heard money can't buy happiness but still we don't believe. Money can give utility value that's not happiness. Wife of Former president of Philippines had 3000 sandals, sultan of Brunel is having so many golden plated palaces but still empty inside. 

Between 20-30 are dreamers, there is nothing wrong in dreaming having and using but there is wrong in thinking that this will give me happiness.

We have forgotten to live while struggling. Zindagi ka safar hai kaisa safar koi samaza nahi koi Jana nahi. *Don't wait for destination. Start finding happiness now. Happiness is journey.* Spiritual life is journey, in middle of  chaos we must learn to be happy. In vrindavan there was chaos, there were problems, lord comes to teach us the same thing that don't postpone happiness, satisfaction. 

*Second mistake-- Herd mentality* 

We feel to be like someone. Be careful while following masses you end up becoming asses. Everyone is geneous but we can't test each by seeing their capacity to climb tree. Just because someone like plum doesn't mean you become plum. Be yourself. Follow your nature. Be original why we want to become photo copy. You are you understand your Swot. Identify your strength. You can take inspiration but don't imitate. There r 5 top wealthiest people in Forbes list where are you ?

*Your net worth is your net work, they helps you to do SWOT.* respect krsnas creation be who you are.

5 pandavas had different personalities. In serving krsna they complemented each other. 

*Third mistake - we compare*

We take so much pleasure when we trouble others. Comparison increases envy.  That's what duryodhan did, he compared his palace with yudhistir palace.  Don't compare stuff, skills. Karna was comparing Arjuna constantly Arjuna was comparing with himself *excellence comes by beating ourselves.* Krsna devotee are not simpleton They Excel in what they do. Karna felt insecurity. *In life each one has different exam paper. Everyone is going through different problems.* 

*If you want to copy , copy the faith of devotees.* 

*Forth mistake - Always be in rush* 

Press a pause. When we are in rush we can't get spiritual experience. Vrindavan is filled with simple joys. Krsna is about feeling sentiments devotion vrindavan is charectarsed by these things. Giriraj Maharaj said *vrindavan means -Simplicity and relationships*. When we are in hurry we can't relish these things. Make relationships with friends family and with krsna. Then krsnas fills us with love. 

Press a pause and connect to krsna.