How to care for introverts

1. Respect their need for privacy n to spend time on their own
2. Never embarrass them in public
3. Let them observe first in new situations
4. Give them time to think. Don’t demand instant answers
5. Don’t interrupt them.
6. Give them advanced notice of expected changes in their lives
7. Give them 15 min warnings to finish whatever they r doing before calling them to dinner or moving on to the next activity.
8. Reprimand them privately
9. Teach them new skills in privately rather than in public
10. Do not push them to make lots of frds
11. Respect their introversion. Don’t try to remake them into extraverts

The courage to be imperfect

The fact is every single one of us is a work in progress.            

We may be at different stages in life. We may have different strengths n weaknesses, but there is not a single person on the planet who has not felt vulnerable or made mistakes. Nor is there a single person who could not be better at sth in some area of life.                         

 While hiding ur flaws or pretending to be sth or sone u r not can fool many ppl n many try to live their lives this way - true power comes from being ur authentic self - flaws n all - n not being  ashamed or afraid of being imperfect

Be vth someone who (does these things )

1. Respects u , even when u r not around
2. Puts down their phone n wants to know how ur day was.
3. Loves u, even when u r not the easiest to love.
4. Is honest n loyal, it’s a rare trait to find.
5. U r comfortable being weird vth
6. Adores u for not just what u luk like, but who u r inside.